The problem we face is that the role of men to fight in wars and be the provider has always been wrong. It is based on an idea of physical strength and the bigger the man the better – which itself is based on the ability to fight.
Both men and women have failed in our history to live up to the challenge of having an intellect where they are ruled wholly by ethical considerations in everything they do. Get to that point in our education and you will have the best man and the best woman you can ever hope to have in the human species.
And how do we arrive at those ethical considerations? By consensus, knowledge and time.